Men’s orgasms cannot be denied. The sexual urge is primordial, basic, base. His mind is attacked by all sorts of perverted images and thoughts. Until he must seek a release. Somehow, any way. Not later but now. If not now, very soon, while the all encompassing urge grows stronger.
She who learns to tease can amass great power over him. Keeping him in state of complete excitement. Not in some chastity device but fully engorged, hard, straining his own flesh. Yet avoiding the finality of release for as long as possible. Driving him crazy until only one purpose drives him. Torture him, talk to him, feed his fantasies. Edge him longer than ever before and eventually release him.
For younger men you may need to release them before starting. Yes release them quickly, rest for 5, then begin again. For some men you may need to tie them up. Do so completely. No holds barred. No way out. You may need to excite yourself and this is encouraged. Fuck him if you want but don’t let him cum. Easier to control is to sit on his face. Keep him excited long enough and he will agree to anything you ask. Don’t be afraid to ask. Demand and he will obey. It is his nature.