Of Bondage

A lot of people fee that bondage is a part of BDSM and that it involves pain and masochism.  It doesn’t have to be that way at all.  Bondage on its own can represent a fun way to enjoy a different sort of sexual experience.

Some people enjoy the feeling of being in restraints, of having someone else in complete control, and the feeling of helplessness.  But what I enjoy most about it is the relief that the one who is tied up from trying to please the other.  Certainly most of the time, I fully enjoy mutually participative sex but I also enjoy teasing and being teased.

When you have your partner tied up, their pleasure is at your mercy and you can touch them, tease them, work their bodies as you know they like.  But denial is a part of the excitement by delaying their complete satisfaction.  Extending the foreplay. Making a night of it.

Of course, the tied up partner is often more sensitive than normal in this situation, because they cannot respond or initiate any activity, all they are left with is to feel your caresses.  Blindfolding them reduces even further the senses they can use and increases the anticipation.  This can be a good time to get out the vibrators, oils, silk, and other bedside playthings.

Bondage can be enjoyable from both sides (IMO).  Whether you are the one doing the teasing or enjoying the ministrations, I highly recommend you give it a try.  Trusting your partner is an important aspect of the enjoyment (unless you enjoy fear) and so it’s not a first date activity.

If you or your partner have a fear of being tied up (from some childhood trauma) you can still enjoy the experience.  Get your partner to agree to pretend to be tied up and agree to not respond or initiate contact with you.  Usually you will have to remind them once or twice during the teasing.

So give it some thought.  Discuss it with your partner.  Give it a try.  Enjoy.

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Multiple Men

As I explore more of the sexier blogs on WordPress I find an incredible number of women who are enjoying more than one man at a time.  I find that rather exciting.  I think a part of it stems from my love of woman as a lustful being and part from my desire to see women pleased sexually.

I have offered my wife the opportunity to share her with another man and so far this has not happened but honestly I look forward to the day when it might happen.  I get excited just thinking about it.

Yet the thought of her having an affair without my knowledge bothers me.  I have no reason to think that is going on but if that were to happen I would be upset.  In the first case it is about me being the facilitator of her dreams and the provider of her deepest desires while in the latter case it feels more like a failure of mine that she needs to compensate for.

 

Again, no reason to suspect any affair but I thought I would share this perspective with those women out there who are dabbling in more than one man.  Perhaps one of these men might be open to a multiple scenario.  You won’t know unless you ask.

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The Job (excerpt)

“Don’t worry honey.  I’ll do all the work.  You can just lie there.  In fact, why don’t I tie you up?”  I felt my pants tighten around my middle.  We sometimes enhanced our usual sex with a bit of bondage.  We switched off from one to the other but I actually enjoyed it most when I was tied up.  No responsibilities, unable to do anything, simply lie back and enjoy her attention.  She was very imaginative and treated me to extraordinary things when she had me tied.  I was in for a treat.

Once upstairs she removed my shirt, laid me on my back on the bed with my head toward the bed’s bottom.  She took out our rather sturdy silk ties and bound each of my wrists to the two foot posts pulling them tighter than usual.  Then she spread eagled my legs and tied them to the head posts.  I was still dressed in my pants and she undid and removed my belt, opened the snap, and slowly slid my zipper down making sure she made as much contact as possible with my growing manhood.

I was wearing black boxers and she took her hand and spread it over the cotton fabric, slowly finding her way to my most sensitive areas with her fingers.  As my member struggled to extend itself, she repositioned it by grabbing it and pulling it through my shorts.

“So, let me tell you about your new job,” she said as she continued to stroke me as I extended to my full ten inches.  “I was thinking to myself, what is it that Bradley does best?  And it became obvious to me that your best qualities come out at night.  Or rather in bed.  Wouldn’t you agree?”  Her eyes had a mischievous glint to them.  I agreed somewhat hesitantly.

“So then I thought how can we take advantage of Bradley’s skills?  And it came to me in a flash.  I know a lot of women who would like to purchase a pussy licking without any complications.  A simple, confidential, uncomplicated, and quality pussy licking.  So that’s what I have done!  You, my love, will spend the rest of the afternoon giving mustache rides.”

She got up rather suddenly.  “Any questions?”  She went over to our “toy” draw and got out a blindfold that we occasionally used.  She placed the blindfold over my eyes.  I was stunned.  She must be joking with me.  I heard the doorbell ring and I wasn’t sure what to make of it.  She left the room to answer it and I thought maybe I should just go with this.  It might not be all that bad.

****This is an excerpt from a FREE story, The Job, available at Smashwords in a compilation of short stories called BRIEFS.   Please enjoy and let me know which story was your favorite.

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Need your Opinion

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What is going on here?  Is he being taught a lesson?  What do you think?

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New Release! Strip For Me

Ava writes some hot stuff. I love the way she teases a story.

What I Write

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It’s out! My newest erotica ebook is available: Strip For Me.

Check out the summary:

Penelope has never watched anyone strip on webcam before. Hell, she’s never stripped herself. But there’s something about the cam boy on a website she recently found that makes her want to. She’s not normally like this, but for some reason she wants to behave in ways she’s not supposed to.

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Smother Me

Smother me with your thighs

Let my lips separate yours.

Let my hands lift your bum

Gripping and grasping

While my mouth is gasping

My tongue is dancing.

 

Let the tip of my tongue

Touch the tip of your clit.

Gently.

In and around.

Playing.

 

My hands separate your cheeks

While my tongue separates your slit

Putting my nose in your hole.

Yes the back one.

Playing with your rim.

 

You’re sitting on top

And taking advantage of me.

Do it for yourself.

Place yourself where ever

When ever

You want the attention of my face.

 

Smother me.

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Such Carnage!

A departure from my usual “fun” stuff to republish a serious comment from a true Muslim. This could be titled “These people are not true Muslims.”

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I am at a loss to know what I should call the heinous atrocities carried on in the name of a religion. Ramadan is such a holy month for the Muslims, and we are told that all the ‘satans’ are chained and imprisoned. Who let these rabid dogs out? How many more blood baths? How many more mothers who would lose their sons and daughters and grandchildren and babies? Why do these animals call themselves Muslims? They are not Muslims. They are people without souls. They are murderers, who think they are Muslims, and hide behind the false pretense that by such murders and killings they will attain martyrdom. What a joke!  They are not going any where near Paradise and I am sure, Hell is too good a place for the likes of them.

They carry a small black flag that says, There is only One God and Muhammad is His Prophet!…

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